tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877731088554997649.post1010999950961624377..comments2024-03-22T17:39:44.420-07:00Comments on 37th Dream/ Rumors of Peace at Sunrise Sunrise Sunrise Sunrise Sunrise Sunrise Sunrise: Sharing Unguarded And Guarded Moments And Dreams On Valentine's Dayamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09212213177713917828noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877731088554997649.post-50156756145743761552018-02-15T09:21:37.608-08:002018-02-15T09:21:37.608-08:00Sabine -- Thank you for everything you wrote. Yes...Sabine -- Thank you for everything you wrote. Yes. Our responses, our acceptance and the knowledge that the past does not have to determine the present or the future. We can treat ourselves better than we were treated by those who didn't treat themselves well. Intergenerational trauma can end with us.amhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09212213177713917828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877731088554997649.post-29280569089520761992018-02-15T07:55:37.977-08:002018-02-15T07:55:37.977-08:00First of all, thank you for such an honest post. A...First of all, thank you for such an honest post. And thanks for showing yourself!<br /><br />I am sure I am not the only reader of your blog who relates to your memories of self hate and self doubt and denial and the very long seemingly endless string of effects this had and continues to have on our life - and whoever told us old age would do away with that?<br /><br />I believe that our unresolved conflicts and hurts from childhood are a never ending burden. But that our response to this is what keeps us sane in the end because most of these hurts will never be forgiven and none of the conflicts resolved. So what is left? Acceptance and the knowledge that it will not bring us down, that there is more to our life than this - regardless.<br />I cannot go to my mother and demand an apology, I couldn't do it when she was alive. I don't know to this day how to forgive her but I can put all this anger and hurt in its place as part of me, knowing that it will stay there, and move on. Again and again and again.<br /><br />Be good to yourself.<br /><br /><br /><br />Sabinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09015827501648296977noreply@blogger.com