A dear friend I have known for 52 years died unexpectedly in late February in Cambria, California. While accomplishing the major task of settling her estate, her sister and brother-in-law have been staying at the lovely dream house she had bought not far from where she had owned a home in Cambria in recent years. She was all ready to move in when her death came. Yesterday a bird began flying at two windows, seemingly trying to get in the house. Her sister sent me these three videos. Do any of you have any idea what kind of bird this is? I am wondering if it is a type of flycatcher.
Three days after my mother died in 1994, a Black Phoebe appeared in a similar manner at my parents' house in Gualala, California.
Before and since then I have heard story after story of a bird appearing after the death of a loved one. When the husband of my friend of 52 years was dying of ALS in 1989, he told her that he would appear to her as a Baltimore oriole after his death. A pair of Baltimore orioles appeared in her yard after his death and built a nest and soon there were fledglings.
Here I am, finding that I do have something to write. I am still gathering photos to celebrate the life of my friend whose death shook me to the core and whose friendship I have treasured since we met in college in 1967.
Here is the view of the backyard of her dream house:
She loved the music of Laura Nyro and Nina Simone:
Update: Here is a screen shot of a just-received video of the mystery bird:
For more detail about the Opportunity Atlas, read here.
For more detail about the blue-red map, read here.
When I listen to John Prine sing "Caravan of Fools," I can't help but think of the red states and those senators who voted for the new supreme court justice.
When I enter "Redwood City, California" into the Opportunity Atlas, I am given a much more detailed view of the currently mostly exceedingly high-income part of California where my family lived from 1957-1974 in a middle class neighborhood built during the post-WWI baby boom. A detailed view of nearby cities shows East Palo Alto standing out today as a low income area. East Palo Alto has a population of African Americans, Latinos and Pacific Islanders and was a low-income area when I was growing up.
In 1973, I left California and settled in a small town in Washington State, 25 miles from the Canadian border. My youngest sister came to live in Washington State soon after. My middle sister lived in California until the 1990s, at which time her job moved her to a series of refineries on the East Coast and in the South and Southwest. She currently lives in Mississippi not far from the Chevron refinery in Pascagoula, in one of the poorest states in the U.S. Checking the Opportunity Atlas, I see that she lives in a pocket where the income averages $36,000, substantially higher than the surrounding area.
My parents arrived in Southern California from Minneapolis/St. Paul, Minnesota in the 1930s. My sisters and I were born on the San Francisco Peninsula during the late 1940s and early 1950s, when the population there was mostly middle-class and white. The middle class neighborhood where I grew up is not far from Silicon Valley. The cost of living there now is in the category of highest in the U.S. and the population is much more diverse than it was in the 1950s. Young people of all races who are now growing up where I grew up are seen by the Opportunity Atlas as having nearly unlimited opportunity.
Although I am living on my $948 Social Security check, my tiny low-end condominium is in a neighborhood near the top of the income scale presented in the Opportunity Atlas map. Although the Opportunity Atlas map above shows Washington State to be at the top of the income scale, when one looks more deeply into the map via the function that allows a closer look, there are pockets at the bottom of income scale all along Interstate 5 at the points where there are Indian Reservations. Among the lowest income areas outside of the South are Indian Reservations. In the Midwest, they are in the midst of the wealthiest section of the U.S.
Adjacent to Bellingham is the Lummi Nation, where the average income is at the bottom of the scale.
Given what is at stake in the coming elections, I am choosing to believe in the sanity of enough of the American people. All we need is enough. A landslide would be heartening, but enough is going to be good enough for now. Except for Minnesota, the states that voted Democratic are not the states that present a picture of having a high average income, although each has areas with incomes at the top of the scale and at the bottom of the scale.
May voices of the poor, the voices of the declining numbers in the middle class, and the voices of those of us who are comparatively rich, and the voices of those who are financially rich and rich in compassion throughout the U.S. rise up and say, "No," to the Republican administration in November.
How can I be useful, of what service can I be? There is something inside me, what can it be? -- Vincent van Gogh (1853-1890)
Welcome to "37TH DREAM (RUMORS OF PEACE)".
The photograph currently at the top of my blog was taken from my porch before sunrise on October 29, 2023.
"OLD GIRL OF THE NORTH COUNTRY" (the earliest name for my blog -- http://oldgirlfromthenorthcountry.blogspot.com
) came to life in early December of 2006 so that I could post a 42-year retrospective of my paintings and drawings and through that action, create a new relationship with the day the man I loved returned from Vietnam in December 1970. For a while (sometime after spring of 2008, which is when he died) my blog was "TALKING 37TH DREAM WITH RAINBOW (RUMORS OF PEACE)". For a number of years, it's been "TALKING 37TH DREAM (RUMORS OF PEACE)." As of April 12, 2017 my blog was titled "37TH DREAM / TALKING 37TH DREAM (RUMORS OF PEACE/LOOKING UP)". Somewhere along the way it became 37TH DREAM (RUMORS OF PEACE).
To begin viewing the retrospective with narrative, scroll down to December 8, 2006, on this page:
I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right temporarily defeated is stronger than evil triumphant. -- Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929-1968)
All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware. -- Martin Buber (1878-1965)
It is only a little planet, but how beautiful it is.
-- Robinson Jeffers
The true end of a war is the rebirth of life; the right to die peacefully in your own bed. The true end of war is the end of fear; the true end of war is the return of laughter.
-- Alfred Molano
Enjoy every sandwich -- Warren Zevon (1947-2003)
Not in God's wilds will you ever hear the sad moan, "All is vanity." No, we are paid a thousand times for all our toil, and after a single day spent outdoors in their atmosphere of strength and beauty, one could still say, should death come — even without any hope of another life — "Thank you for this most glorious gift!" and pass on.
-- John Muir (1838-1914)
Philip Henslowe: Mr. Fennyman, allow me to explain about the theatre business. The natural condition is one of insurmountable obstacles on the road to imminent disaster. Hugh Fennyman: So what do we do? Philip Henslowe: Nothing. Strangely enough, it all turns out well. Hugh Fennyman: How? Philip Henslowe: I don't know. It's a mystery.